Please Vote For Me

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I am the President of The Ashley Lauren Foundation, an organization devoted to helping families survive financially when one of their children is diagnosed with cancer. It’s a volunteer position (meaning I don’t get paid) for a cause I truly believe in. They asked me to compete in a dance competition on February 25th to raise money so they can help more families. I am a terrible dancer and have no shot at winning based on my dancing skills. The only way I will win is if I am able to get more pre-event votes than the other three dancers, so I’m reaching out to you to cast a vote for yours truly.

Here is a little snippet of one of my dance practice sessions. I am dancing to the song Ice Ice Baby.

Unlike national organizations that fund research, the Ashley Lauren Foundation is a small, local New Jersey based 501(c)3 non-profit, working “hands-on” with each family.  The goal of The Ashley Lauren Foundation is to ease the journey when pediatric cancer is diagnosed by providing Direct Financial Assistance, which is their hallmark. We pay for household bills,  mortgages, car payments, medications not paid through medical insurance, traveling expenses to and from hospitals, funeral expenses, food, clothing and other household items. We also have family liaisons whose mission is to help families and their children through this harrowing process. Once a child with cancer is connected with The Ashley Lauren Foundation, the Foundation works side by side with them throughout their entire battle making their lives easier.

In order to win, I must receive the most votes. I NEED YOUR VOTES! There is no limit to the amount of votes you can buy!!  Online voting ends midnight on 2/22/17.

Go to this link http://ashleylaurenfoundation.org/ButterflyBall/dancers/  and start voting for me.

Start voting now because I WANT TO WIN but most importantly, the more money we raise, the more families we can help.

You can also cheer me on by attending the Butterfly Ball as I compete to win.  Thanks so much!!!!  

 

 

 

Rich Habits Poor Habits Episode 20 | No is a Rich Habit

Time is our most valuable resource and it is a valuable resource that is given to us for free. no

Because it is free we tend to not value our time until it starts to run out.

Time becomes a valuable resource at around age 50.

This is when we realize time is running out.

In Tom Corley’s five-year Rich Habits study of 233 rich people and 128 poor people he discovered the habit of learning to say NO

Rich people, specifically self-made rich people, made a habit of saying NO to certain individuals.

In this week’s video we discuss Rich people, specifically self-made rich people, made a habit of saying NO to certain individuals.

These include:

  • Down & Out – Those who are reluctant to ask for help but truly need your help and
  • Users – Those who are continuously looking for a handout but never reciprocate and
  • Reciprocators – Those who look for opportunities to help first or repay the debt.

The Down and Out are individuals who have experienced random bad luck in life.

These are individuals who would otherwise never ask for help.

Life circumstances forced their hand.

Users are individuals who are self-centered and focused only on their needs.

They don’t value your time.

Their lives are usually a mess and they forged this nasty habit of continuously seeking favors from others.

What makes them toxic is that they never reciprocate and pay off the debt of your services.

They are like locusts and should be avoided at all costs.

Reciprocators are individuals who seek your help but, unlike the users, they value your time and feel compelled to reciprocate your kindness. mind

It’s often difficult to initially separate the Users from the Reciprocators.

This is the fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me scenario.

Users will seek out your help, never reciprocate and then come back to the well over and over again until you say NO.

When you say NO, they discard you like yesterday’s trash and move on.

When you make a habit of saying NO, except to those truly in need, that is a Rich Habit, users will disappear in your life.

You can catch up with past episodes of this weekly webcast here Rich Habit, Poor Habits – Tom Corley & Michael Yardney

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Rich Habits Poor Habits Episode 19 | Is Being Rich or Poor a Choice?

There has been a long standing question surrounding the choice of being rich or poor.  

The question, however, should really be – who is responsible for your life?key

It is often easy to blame others for your circumstances, but that is what makes the rich different – they are the pilot of their life.

In Tom Corley’s five-year Rich Habits study of 233 rich people and 128 poor people he discovered that your beliefs dictate your circumstances in life.

Those who are wealthy have different beliefs than those who are poor or stuck in the middle class.

We adopt the beliefs our parent, family, mentors, culture, and environment.

Most who were raised in poverty inherited limiting beliefs that hold them back in life.

Those who are able to rise from poverty and become wealthy found mentors who possessed success beliefs or employed certain strategies that enabled them to remove their limiting beliefs and implant success beliefs, effectively re-programming their entire belief system.

In this week’s video we discuss key choices that everyone has:

These include:

  1. Being the pilot of your own life
  2. Taking responsibility for your choices
  3. Understanding circumstances won’t change until you do
  4. Creating your own luck
  5. Take action to find opportunity

You can catch up with past episodes of this weekly webcast here Rich Habit, Poor Habits – Tom Corley & Michael Yardney

You may also be interested in viewing:

RICH HABITS POOR HABITS EPISODE 18 | FEARLESS HABITS OF ENTREPRENEURS

RICH HABITS POOR HABITS EPISODE 17 | POOR BELIEFS PART 2

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True Wealth is About Much More Than Money

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When most think of wealth, they think about money. The thinking goes, the more money you have, the wealthier you are. But wealth is about much more than money. True wealth is measured by how much freedom that money buys and how much fulfillment you have in your life. Money can buy you freedom, permitting you to do things, and go places, others cannot go. Or money can imprison you. Like a ball and chain, money can anchor you to a business or profession filled with responsibilities, obligations, deadlines and stress.

So, when you measure true wealth, you must take into consideration what type of life you have. In my two latest books, Change Your Habits Change Your Life and Rich Habits Poor Habits, I do just that. Below is a snapshot of a few of the things that truly make you wealthy: [Read more…]

Rich Habits Poor Habits Episode 18 | Fearless Habits of Entrepreneurs

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On the surface these are wealthy and successful people – but there’s much more to them than that.

Entrepreneurs posses beliefs that are a great part of their success – they take risks and they are fearless.

Beliefs represent the acceptance of something without any proof to back up what we accept as fact.

In Tom Corley’s five-year Rich Habits study of 233 rich people and 128 poor people he discovered that your beliefs dictate your circumstances in life.

Those who are wealthy have different beliefs than those who are poor or stuck in the middle class.

We adopt the beliefs our parent, family, mentors, culture, and environment.

Most who were raised in poverty inherited limiting beliefs that hold them back in life.

Those who are able to rise from poverty and become wealthy found mentors who possessed success beliefs or employed certain strategies that enabled them to remove their limiting beliefs and implant success beliefs, effectively re-programming their entire belief system.

 

In this week’s video we discuss how the wealthy adopt certain beliefs that promote success:

These include:

  • Health and well-being
  • Dream & Goal setting,
  • The way they view problems and solutions
  • Charitable work and giving back to the community

You can catch up with past episodes of this weekly webcast here Rich Habit, Poor Habits – Tom Corley & Michael Yardney

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Rich Habits Poor Habits Episode 17 | Poor Beliefs Part 2

If you want to succeed in life, if you want to become rich, you need to understand the success beliefs of the Rich and develop more of these and drop the beliefs of the Middle Class or Poor.

Beliefs represent the acceptance of something without any proof to back up what we accept as fact.rich poor

They are inherited unconscious programming.

In Tom Corley’s five-year Rich Habits study of 233 rich people and 128 poor people he discovered that your beliefs dictate your circumstances in life.

Those who are wealthy have different beliefs than those who are poor or stuck in the middle class.

Most who were raised in poverty inherited limiting beliefs that hold them back in life.

Those who are able to rise from poverty and become wealthy found mentors who possessed success beliefs or employed certain strategies that enabled them to remove their limiting beliefs and implant success beliefs, effectively re-programming their entire belief system.

yed certain strategies that enabled them to remove their limiting beliefs and implant success beliefs, effectively re-programming their entire belief system.

In this week’s video we discuss how the wealthy adopt certain beliefs that promote success:

These include:

  • Health and well-being
  • Dream & Goal setting,
  • The way they view problems and solutions
  • Charitable work and giving back to the community

You can catch up with past episodes of this weekly webcast here Rich Habit, Poor Habits – Tom Corley & Michael Yardney

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RICH HABITS POOR HABITS EPISODE 14 | RICH BELIEFS PART 7

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Rich Habits Poor Habits Episode 16 | Poor Habits Part 1

If you want to succeed in life, if you want to become rich, you need to understand the success beliefs of the Rich and develop more of these and drop the beliefs of the Middle Class or Poor.

Beliefs represent the acceptance of something without any proof to back up what we accept as fact.

They are inherited unconscious programming.

In Tom Corley’s five-year Rich Habits study of 23money coin price work job struggle balance rich man3 rich people and 128 poor people he discovered that your beliefs dictate your circumstances in life.

Those who are wealthy have different beliefs than those who are poor or stuck in the middle class.

Most who were raised in poverty inherited limiting beliefs that hold them back in life.

Those who are able to rise from poverty and become wealthy found mentors who possessed success beliefs or employed certain strategies that enabled them to remove their limiting beliefs and implant success beliefs, effectively re-programming their entire belief system.

In this week’s video we discuss how the wealthy adopt certain beliefs that promote success:

These include:

  • Health and well-being
  • Dream & Goal setting,
  • The way they view problems and solutions
  • Charitable work and giving back to the community

You can catch up with past episodes of this weekly webcast here Rich Habit, Poor Habits – Tom Corley & Michael Yardney

You may also be interested in viewing:0

RICH HABITS POOR HABITS EPISODE 14 | RICH BELIEFS PART 7

RICH HABITS POOR HABITS EPISODE 13 | RICH BELIEFS PART 6

RICH HABITS POOR HABITS EPISODE 12 | RICH BELIEFS PART 5

RICH HABITS POOR HABITS EPISODE 11 | RICH BELIEFS PART 4

 

 

 

What Failure Feels Like

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The most practical and valuable advice on becoming rich comes from those who tried. Listen closely to those who have tried to pursue wealth. Their lessons are born from the fire of real-world experience.

While most of the how to get rich advice I dispense comes from my Rich Habits Study and my books Rich Habits, Rich Kids and Change Your Habits Change Your Life, I am one of those who have tried. More importantly, I am one of those who tried and failed. Failure, I’ve learned, offers the most important lessons.

In  my career, I started four companies. One of those four start-ups failed. This piece will focus on that failure, how it nearly destroyed my life and the lessons I learned from failing. [Read more…]

13 Habit Resolutions to Pump Up Your Finances in 2017

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If you want to change your life, you must change your habits. In my book Rich Habits I highlight which habits have the most impact over your life and in my followup book Change Your Habits Change Your Life, I explain how to make habit change quick, painless and permanent. Below I share some of the key habits to adopt for the new year along with some of the strategies to make habit change easier. [Read more…]

Rockstar Finance Rich Habits Series – Rich Habit #2 Defining Your Dreams and Setting Goals

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